I'm 15 and I don't know what to do anymore. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year, he just turned 16. I love him so much and know we will be together forever. But he hates my parents because they try to control our relationship and he says they are ruining it. We like to just be together the two of us and they think we should do separate stuff with our friends still and think we are too "serious". My mom has said that she worries that he is a little controlling because he is always texting me and wants to be with me and gets mad if he doesn't get what he wants and is too impatient. It's not just him, I want to text him all the time and see him too. So it gets me mad when she tries to talk to me about that. She doesn't understand that he gets mad because his parents always give in to him.

My parents have rules and he says he can't accept them and gets mad that I do. His parents don't have those rules so we can do what we want by his house. Chase told me that his mom said she thinks my parents are way too controlling and should let me grow up and that he is an A student, they should trust him because he has never done anything to make them not and she would be more than happy to tell my mom that. He said his dad always calls my mom and dad the bi*ch and a**hole. My parents don't know that and it kinda bothers me THEY talk that way about them too! My mom always checked with his parents before letting me go over there that they or one of them will be there and they always tell her, oh yeah we'll be here she can come. And they are, but she didn't know we can be alone there.

My Dad read my phone and found out about a lot of the dating rules that we've broken. Also that we sext and send pictures to each other and even that we've had sex already once. Then my parents set even more restrictions. I didn't plan on having sex that soon and wanted to wait until I was married or at least engaged but since I know we'll be together forever I changed my mind and said that yes, I wanted to. We haven't done it after that one time because I'm kinda scared to get pregnant AND my parents have to be with us now for him to see me. He says he will get condoms, but I want to wait until I can get enough courage to ask my mom if I can go on birth control so I'm completely sure I won't get pregnant.

I feel horrible because I know that all my friends have the same rules as me and that my parents really aren't being unreasonable or mean. I also know that I have taken advantage of their trust. No matter how I try to explain it he just doesn't get it. His parents just always let him have his way and do anything he wants. I'm getting tired of hearing mean things about my family or when he tries to get me to not talk to them, I love them and we have a really good family. But sometimes I too hate them when they won't let me do stuff with him. I keep telling my boyfriend it won't be forever, just until we are old enough to do what we want, but he doesn't think that he can handle that. I think he might have some anger issues because he gets mad at really stupid stuff besides my parents rules. He would never hurt me or anyone but he has yelled at both my mom and dad before and says it will happen again if they don't change their rules.

I am just really stuck in the middle. I will not break up with him, he says he needs me and loves me. I love him too much to ever break up but I feel really bad for my parents sometimes.