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Old Feb 23, 2014, 01:19 PM
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Originally Posted by puzzle_bug1987 View Post
I think you should tell her you need her help in setting boundaries.
I think you are right, but I am so scared to do that. I don't want to give up the control, even though I am not meeting my financial goals well this way. Maybe I can say something jokingly tomorrow, like "ok, don't let me talk too long this time, I really have to get back to work on time" and just broach it that way, I really don't want her cutting me off, more of a gentle wrapping up process. So hard for me to believe sometimes that an hour with her won't be the last hour ever, you know... I have this huge compulsion I've been trying to get a grip on, to do everything now, fix everything now.... no time like the present, don't count on the future!

She's been trying to talk me out of that a while, lol. And I do need to have more faith in that, but I'm making slow if any progress on that aspect.