Thank you for your feedback. I do feel a lot better for not responding back immediately but apparently it's just stuck in my head to have done/said something. I don't want to be like that person, but I see others join in the abuse just to fit in and to suck up to the coach. She holds such a high standing in my sport/activity that she could care less if she is embarrassed by someone that stands up to her, which has happened. She will fight back with crazy and stupid come backs that make no sense but for some reason people still bow down to her, I don't understand it. I don't want to give up my sport/activity because of her bullying me, I enjoy it too much and why give her the satisfaction. This isn't my first incident with her, I do realize that she says things to me because I don't make a big deal about it. I have confronted her about it and I got the response "suck it up"!