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Old Feb 23, 2014, 06:36 PM
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I am usually fine unless something really bad hits my life like I'm experiencing now. Initially I expressed my issue to those who asked how i was....most are great & understand the seriousness & ask if I have had any success in resolving the medical issue & it's easy i just say....NO. I have one friend who loves to solve the worlds problems & tbh discussing or talking about my issues only creates others....& I have been so busy trying to make the most of my time incase the worse case situation hits me I haven't had time to just sit & talk...& I wouldn't want to talk about my situation anyway & don't have time to just sit there & listen to her problems either. So some arear I isolate so I don't have to say anything knowing that NO GOOD would come from it....& others i say just enough to let them know...no change without continually getting into any details. But I don't say I'm fine when I'm not either while also not dumping my woes on my friends either....think it's possible for the right balance to occur & mostly it works as long as i don't accidentally get drawn into saying too much to my dear friend who means well

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