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RosePetals said:
Hi Sidony !
My husband never cheated on me, it was before we was together, we got married after two months of dating. But we have always believed we only had one family. Ours together! we started our family with love, and we choose to be together forever,with one family. No this person says she is his, she will be 31 next month. It is hard for me and my husband to deal with and has put a lot of stress on both of us. We still love each other, but still hard to accept. Thank you.

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Hi RosePetals! Sorry I misunderstood!!! Your husband sounds perfect. :-) But you really should try to talk about this stuff and get some input on how to cope with it (and definitely from someone with better ideas/skills than me :-) ). Don't bury your feelings about it or you'll create a wall. I've done that too many times to count! Build a strategy together! This person will not be able to destroy your life, it's just going to be hard to cope with for a while.

Sidony