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Originally Posted by healingme4me
I don't feel, PC, is completely rigid. You've mentioned feelings of shame, in your own past, perhaps, not sure, the notion of moving this to caregivers or relationships/communication, is so that those who come here, in this subforum don't inadvertently read, with own sense of shame, especially, as others may or may not relate.
If you'd like ppl to be able to relate, certainly, if anyone here, were to relate to behaviors versus experiences, where's the fairness and compassion.
At this point, seems, there's a circular discussion, off topic, as it is...
If so strict, it's still in same sub forum, which tells me, there's a bunch of compassion, whilst asserting, gentle boundaries...
The move thread request, seemed fair. Have heart, for those with this disorder, struggling daily themselves...
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I have a lot of compassion, hence why I mention she was abused and has a family teeming with mental illness. There was nothing she could have done to prevent that as a child, either environmentally or genetically.
I haven't seen this behavior in other forums, quite honestly. The pseudo-logical, passive-agressive "here's a link; follow this" when it does nothing to embolden their stance is laughable and sadly very relatable.
"I couldn't be bothered" "This implies this amongst many possible interpretations" etc.
I feel like keeping it here is now the therapeutic. Folding is not in my cards any more. I'll leave this here and let those bothered report it.
If someone with NPD kindly says it offends them, I will delete it, but the shaming/linking will fall on silence. In fact, I'll just report them for de-rails, which is far more of an clear infraction. There are literally 1000s of posts to read here; back/refresh/forward still work on browsers the last time I checked.