I have no idea what and how much to share, I have been burned by both ends of it. I usually sit back and listen and try to find a connection and then jump on it, but then it has been used against me. If I don't share or I hold back then I am considered cold and negative. I can't win. I am suppose to hold everything together and when I start to shatter then I am looked at as the weak one and need to get it together. eff that. I need a break!!! Ps I seem to always find the false people, I think I am a false people magnet.