You sound unhappy, as it seems that you've been expected to adjust to your husband's choices (which he made even though you expressed your opposition). Is it really necessary for you to pretend that you're happy? But - instead of withdrawing, is it possible to think of some other ways to view/understand the current situation, in order to consider possibilities that might improve things? In the current situation - what are the pros and cons. What are your options, and what are his options? What would be more in line with what each of you wants - even looking ahead say 3 months, 6 months, 1 year (etc.)?