So I'm still trying to accept and trust a new T. It's been weekly for a few months, with a couple of extra sessions thrown in.

Anyway, I've been having issues relating to my husband. I talk about him a lot, and I mean every session. From the start, I used his name. Like "my husband (name) did this...".

My Friday session opened my eyes. This T started to say something profound I'm sure, but then asked " what is your husband's name?" I just answered like it didn't faze me. I don't want to bring it up to T until I sort out my thoughts on it (I have till Friday to stew about it).

Is T just not listening, doesn't care or what? It feels like a big deal to me. Would you care?