I think I have seen that Child Within book before. I keep wondering if my T wanted me to do those things (read a certain book or do an exercise or write out something) then why hasn't he? and if I suggest it does it mean I am trying to do his job for him or that I think I know better or I don't know.... I always hesitate to lead our discussion because he is the professional and knows how to help me. But I am so impatient!