I wouldn't know what to label the relationship, but I have maintained contact with one of my ex-T's for 10 yrs. We only update each other about our lives, remember the past, and encourage each other. Right now, we only communicate through email, but I also haven't asked for more contact.

I have also maintained contact with a mental health counselor for 10 yrs. My relationship with her has less restrictions than my relationship with my ex-T.

I do hope to have contact with my current T after our sessions end. I have informed her of that already, but we haven't addressed it yet.

And I DO have attachment issues with all of these women. But they know that I will respect their decisions over my own wants/needs.