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Originally Posted by Yearning0723
The "bad" part = sending that email after being explicitly told not to. The phone session, okay, she offered (under slight duress), but there was no excuse for the email.
I expected her to be angry. She would have every right to be. But she isn't.
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We discuss and obsess a lot about boundaries in this forum. Boundaries are important, but..... sending an email after she's said don't send emails isn't like... punching her in the face.... you were in distress, you sent an email. You two will work through that.
It's like asking for help on a test.... you're not supposed to, but you really wanted to understand the problem. You might go to detention for it, but not hell. Just.... keep perspective.
