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Originally Posted by Leah123
We discuss and obsess a lot about boundaries in this forum. Boundaries are important, but..... sending an email after she's said don't send emails isn't like... punching her in the face.... you were in distress, you sent an email. You two will work through that.
It's like asking for help on a test.... you're not supposed to, but you really wanted to understand the problem. You might go to detention for it, but not hell. Just.... keep perspective.  |
Actually, if you ask for help on a test in university, you get expelled.
But I see your point.
Is it really not that big a deal? Because in my mind, it's just incredibly disrespectful of me, because if I stated a hard boundary to someone else and they ignored it (ie my mother being so upset I didn't call her right after our argument) I would be pretty upset.