I don't have T as a facebook friend. I however have my pcp as a friend. I feel very close to both of them as I figure I have told them things that NOBODY else knows about me. They have helped me through some very difficult things and continue to be there for me. Pcp once said there have been times that she has been concerned about me and so she watched my facebook. It wasn't about snooping or spying it was about making sure I was okay. It doesn't bother me as I know the reason behind it is that she cares.