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Originally Posted by Raging Quiet
This was a one off session: t wanted to meet my h to "get the full picture" It was so weird. 
She pointed out how I don't listen to my h, told h that "people with my anxiety can't be told" and she took a real shine to my h (turning to me telling me how great my h was every few minutes)
I felt 'ganged up' on, even though my h was his lovely self and t was okay; I lost my voice, I felt like the weird girl at school.. all my worst bits talked about. It made me feel deflated.
Sorry to moan. |
What does that mean, people with your anxiety, can't be 'told'?
A later post, you mention, concern about seeing, if you are 'lying', by bringing in your h?
Was that can't be told comment, a positive, for you, where your h is concerned?
T's way of asserting a need for you?
I reached a point, a few years ago, where I realized a way that certain people talk 'down', to me. It's not often in a conscious manner, but I've learned to address it, case by case.
How does your h, speak to you, when he does? As though, lecturing, in his own way? As compared to an equal counter part?
((otherwise, that is about the only positive spin, i can pull away, from this))
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