Hi all!
I wanted to thank all of you for your help. I know a lot of people really can't seem to grasp how I would feel, some of you have never been in a relationship as long as I have, some of you might be younger or as old as this girl of 30, that has told us that she is my husbands daughter. I guess my biggest problem is that, we was married at a young age, we stood by each other all these years, and raised our children together. This girl has been raised by another family,and adopted by another man, and she just found out who her real father is. My husband did not date her mother, he only had quick sex with her, and never saw her again, and now after 31 years we find out she is his daughter. I feel and could be wrong, but I feel if he is her father, he did not raise her, never held our loved her... He would have been and only been a sperm donor. That is the way I feel, and maybe in time, I might look at this in a deferent way. Also my grown children does not want to know her or ever speak with her. Thanks again. Sure gets a load off my shoulders.