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Originally Posted by sweepy62
Oh I thought she cancelled before you got there, sorry you had to go through that. If she is not through your school, and if you won't get expelled from school if you stop seeing her, then why do you keep going? Obviously it's not going to work out.
Your school t should refer you to another tt can you look into that?
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Originally Posted by growlycat
It usually works out better if you can interview a few TT's to see who you feel better with (or least awful with?)
I think my T's in my youth did not work out because they were assigned, not chosen. My longtime T, I interviewed and chose.
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My school does not do referrals at all. They couldn't even recommend me anywhere. It would have to be LCM. She probably couldn't make a formal referral but she could point me in a different direction?
I don't know how to interview Ts. What do you do? Do you tell them that it's an interview? Where do you just find a bunch to interview? And how do I trust my own instincts to know who is good or not? I love LCM but I worry that she's no good and I'm just deluded because I want her to be my mom so badly. Like in order to graduate from school, I have to give a recital. It's kinda a big deal and people's families fly out to see it and crap. Obviously, my parents will not come to mine. I don't have to give this thing this year, but it's been on my mind because for whatever reason my friends are giving junior recitals and talking about their families coming and it made me just remember how I'll have a few extra noticeably empty chairs at mine and think both about how them not being there will make people talk or feel bad for me which I don't want and also just visually feeling that gap where they should have been. My first thought was "maybe LCM will come and take their seat next to my teacher. Then I have mom and dad".
I'm not really sure how that story relates to this topic beyond just being an extremely concrete example of the extent of my attachment to her. And that could cloud my thinking because lots of horrible people are moms and lots of them have horrible children who think they are wonderful. I could be locked into that for all I know.
And how do I tell TT that we aren't working out? I don't want to hurt her feelings. I tried to switch school Ts two years ago but I backed off when I got worried she'd be upset. I like having school T around and I'm glad I didn't switch her in the end and I worry it would be the same with TT.