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Old Feb 25, 2014, 07:54 AM
Bill3 Bill3 is offline
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And how do I tell TT that we aren't working out? I don't want to hurt her feelings. I tried to switch school Ts two years ago but I backed off when I got worried she'd be upset. I like having school T around and I'm glad I didn't switch her in the end and I worry it would be the same with TT.
If this is your intuition for now, then consider thinking about ways to make working with TT better. For example:

--you don't have to write her a letter; you could simply print out all or key parts of your posts #75 and #78, here: http://forums.psychcentral.com/psych...t-thing-8.html You can then assess her reaction to what you say.

--it sounds like you don't usually see her at 6. As Yearning0723 suggested above, consider changing your commute by going early (or asking persistently for a different time). It makes sense that it would be tough for you to speak freely within a few minutes of a jam-packed commute.