You don't like guacamole!?!? Yeah, you need to get some foods in you that boost your metabolism. If you start eating them, you begin to like them. I use avocado in place of mayo or oil on my sandwiches. Eggs are good and turkey too. Whole wheat bread is best. As for girls, I'd be very leery of any woman that came on to me aggressively. They usually are touched in some way... NPD, BPD or just needy and desperate. The only way is to get up the courage to go up to them or else have a mutual friend introduce you.