These sorts of discussions make me uncomfortable because I have had so much trouble with connection all of my life. I struggle with avoiding it because I am afraid of want it too much because I have missed out. I believe humans are wired for connection. Babies will die without it. People can adapt without human connection but I am not sure if they can really be ok with it or if it is a compromise as akua said. Often I make the choice to stay at home instead of seeking interaction. I do have a cat. For a while I didn't and that was much worse. Paradoxically I can talk to strangers when I travel with almost no issue whatsoever. I am also able to attend groups with strangers and get along fine. I'll even get into some deep conversations. It just isn't really "connection" and it is fleeting.

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