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Originally Posted by ScrewedUpMe
It's as if she has this idea that because I have BPD, I must always be wrong or reading things wrong, misinterpreting things. I sometimes think she thinks I'm more ill than I actually am and puts everything down to BPD. .....It's probably worth a try but I am so scared of opening a can of worms and then finishing therapy with her (after 7 years) on bad terms. It's a tough one.
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I hear you.
There are still plenty of times I feel like my T is always trying to re-direct to my family, as well as assuming that any criticism I have about my wife is just me being BPD.
But whenever I feel like he is doing this I am able to tell him and he responds.
I hope everything goes for the best for you.
If you have seven years in with her and you like the results, etc...maybe you can find a way forward with her that you are comfortable with.