((((((hippo))))))),
It took me a month before I found another therapist, and it was difficult to say the least. I just called therapists, interviewed a few, and started with my current therapist, who I've seen for over a year now. I'm so sorry you have to go through termination, but I suspect that if you find the right therapist, that he/she will know better how to help you with the attachment issues. My current therapist reacts differently to my "needy" side, which has helped me become less needy over time. I still have a way to go, but it isn't as stressful as it was with my previous T, who tried to help but didn't know how. Please keep us posted on how you are doing.