So today my co-worker made a few comments that lead me to believe she has a feeling something is up with me. She still doesn't know anything though.

I really appreciate you guys' input and has really helped me work through this. I still haven't been approached by my other boss, but the one I spoke to is offering me a pretty decent deal. I've been thinking about it for the past few days and I think that is what I want to do. However the issue with my coworker is still tugging at my heart strings. I don't want to be a bad person. I really don't want anyone thinking I took something from her or her family, even though we know that's not the truth. It's driving me crazy, and it's even make me think I don't know how I could get over this in the long run. It's to the point where I am actually considering that just quitting altogether would be the best solution and would avoid her leaving being mad at me. It's not what I want though, but a part of me feels that that would be a more livable solution