My grandpa is once again near death. I might have said this several times in the last year or so, and several times it was close. Now he's starting to feel the presence of his dead wife. He also can't take a few steps without getting out of breath. Also, he's sleeping most of the time. He is 91 years old. I am scared again. Today I found out and its confirmed that my brother (besides my mom) needs surgery to take out his lap band from complications. Then soon after (its not scheduled yet but they will be close together) my mom will need the highly dangerous back operation. Just too much stress to deal with. Does anyone know that if feeling the presence of lost loved ones is a sign of near death?