OMG !!!!! h has been harassing me about this forever, with t1 he came to one of my sessions as per t requests on that same day, 2 session, I was severly depressed at the time, and I had mentioned that there were guns in the house ( unsecured) I know it was a mistake in mentioning that. Anyway, he went up there, and he agreed to buy a safe, but all he did , was freaking complain and cry about my moods, this was before I was diagnosed with anything.
When I started with t2, he kept bugging me about wanting to see t I kept hesitating, h does not know about my past, I choose not to tell, I dont find him as a safe person to disclose, he is very controlling at times, I had a bad past with him, now he is ok. He is not a good listener, he makes fun of my mental ilness sometimes, my t knows this already. I know he is stressed out as well, I am not justifying his behavior though. He is only on my emergency contact list.
He tried calling my substance abuse t last year , I dont go there anymore, and she told him, she could not disclose, because he was only emergency contact, but she offered him to come in for a session, and she could talk about mood disorders to help the situation at home. He declined, he was very rude, and told her he should be kept informed of all my sessions via email and calls as he is my husband. lol, is this a freaking company is he a ceo or something, he says he is entitled to this.
He says that they need to call him and set up appointments around his schedule, not the other way around. Last night he tells me, that he expects to see my t in two weeks, because he needs a weeks a weeks notice to prepare, prepare for what, this is not a ceo meeting, I will discuss this with t , if he goes i only want him there for only 25 min, and only discuss moods, that is it.