Sweepy - it's your therapy. Your H cannot dictate what should happen there, and he has no right to know what you talk about with your therapist, if you do not choose to tell him. People who are married are still separate people. He is absolutely not entitled to any information you do not choose to disclose. This is really important. If you want to confide in him, then that's fine, but if you don't, nobody can force you to, and you definitely shouldn't feel obliged to let him see your therapist.