Still pondering this pending diagnosis. I have studied about it as much as I have time for. I do not agree that I have it. Why did T. even suggest that I may have it. This is causing me much anxiety. Before last week, I saw myself as a person with depression, and a person with anxiety. OK. Now, if I have this thing called borderline personality disorder, I see myself as defective, like unfix-able. About hopeless. I will see T. in about two weeks. Anyone have suggestions on what questions I should ask to know why she thinks this.