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Originally Posted by artemis-within
I hope you're able to work this out I know I wouldn't want my h with me in a session. That time is for ME. He used to ask about my appointments every single time but I wouldn't really share much so he gradually stopped asking. I do share some things from time to time now, because he IS supportive of me most of the time (except when he complains about the money once in awhile but then again so do I) but I do not tell him even close to everything we talk about and work through. He doesn't even know what she looks like.
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He knows, i work on my moods, and how much i dont get along with his mom, but he has known that throughout our marriage he doesnt mind that, and he knows when i use to self harm, that is it, i would not mind if he comes, and the conversation is limited to my moods , but knowing him he will make the session about himself and how he is the victim to all this, and how he has to waste gas money to take me to therapy and how financially its affecting us and boo hoo, I know him all that well, then he will start crying, and he will start with, that i am not affectionate i dont look at him when i talk to him, im not touchy feely , hell i have aspergers syndrome cut me a break, i started therapy late in life, i didnt know i had all these diagnosis, i didnt know why i had all these behaviors, i am happy to know my diagnosis know, it explains alot.