my wife and I have been together for almost 15 years married 9 and have 2 girls.she was diagnosed as bipolar which helps me understand cheating in the past.she had a manic episode recently left the house had many dating profiles I found and secret email and facebook account.i deleted all those things and we are going through counseling new meds and spending more time together.i am hurt from all this especially not really understanding what causes these actions but wondering if our marriage will survive the long term or should I take my girls and run for the hills?