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Originally Posted by Miguel'smom
Can you suggest that he gets his own therapist? Maybe at the same time you do so there's no more waste in gas? Try to explain that he needs support to help him deal with being your "care giver" even though that's untrue.
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actually, i am the freaking caregive to him and his damn mother, he is a bit disabled , he has a leg problem, and a bit of a bad temper, but he does not hit me, its just emotional abuse sometimes, I take care of thier needs go freaking figure, i meet all thier NEEDS. they are very SELFISH. He does not want to go to therapy he says he is his own problem solver, he is the type of guy that, likes to have everything under control, he is not abusive, but likes to know everything about you.
and being that he takes me to therapy, even though i can drive, but the only thing is i tend to space out, its not safe for me to drive, he says he is entitled to know my therapy treatment plan, since he has power of attorney over his mom, I guess he feels superior and all.