This is an intresting topic for me right now cause I too am going through allot of personal inner issues in which I feel was a result of my upbringing. My parents well better said my mother was very strick and old fashion and because of it she spent more time disciplining me instead of showing me love especially in the times I feel as I needed her the most and have retaleated against it now I wish I was a better daughter but I am a mother of two having my first child at the age of 18 and the second at age 21 I have had no choice to grow up sooner than what I wanted but I have learned from my parents as in I use my experience as a child with them and raise my daughter the oppisite. I have been really affected by my upbringing due to the lack of love and support I have recieved and my fathers death at the age of 14 I have allot of abandoment issues and I try to seek aceptaince and love from anywhere which is a characteristic of me in which I extreamly hate. I just hate that it took me this long to realize and accept my issues now that I have pushed everyone away and made others hate me.