Hi niceguy, it just shows how much you have already moved on, despite any left over feelings. I'm sure it would have been a different story one/two/three (?)............ months ago so real respect!!
I'll always say there's goodness in people, sorry, but sometimes things just aren't going to even touch on being in your best interests and you do really need to protect yourself at the end of the day. And there is SO much more out there, including people you aren't going to need to protect yourself from!!
And as ever, think you've got great insight so just go with it!!!
Alison