I would like to see your sister show you what love looks like. Sometimes I think we do not love ourselves because we do not know how. Glad you are trying to lose weight. Do it for yourself, not to get a girlfriend. Remind yourself every day that you have a great personality and a great sense of humor.

Sometimes I think trying to make friends is kind of backwards. Try to be a friend to others with no agenda other than to be helpful. When i get opportunities to give of myself, it is very satisfying.

You have to make the effort to see positives. It is so easy to see the negatives. It takes effort to see the positives. Make the choice every day to look for good things to be thankful for. Say things out loud, like, Sis, your hair is sure pretty and shiny today. Or, thank you so much for saying I have a great personality . It means a lot to me. Or, if your sister is negative, open your arms and ask if she needs a hug. You may shock her, but reward her shock with a big grin.