I am totally fine with not knowing anything about his life. I do know a little about him, because his musical and literary tastes often shine through in our discussions. I am a little curious about what he does during the summer, and things like that, but I would never ask because I really am fine with not knowing, and since I know that he wouldn't answer, asking would be pointless.

What does bug me a little is the way he discourages questions about his health when he is clearly unwell - which is not often, but right now he's had a cold for a couple of weeks, and I would like to know if he is feeling better, but am afraid to ask. He has never cancelled a session because he was ill, so he's in good health generally speaking.