Thanks sunrise.

You're totally right of course. I get way ahead of things. I just worry that I'm categorizing the group members the way I do my co-workers at work (I said this is another thread too, sorry), and those are people I never grow close to. Unless I interact with them one-on-one.

I guess I'm just afraid that after 6 months I'll still have no idea how to connect with anyone in that kind of setting. But you're right that I shouldn't worry about that yet. I don't know why I put such intense pressures on myself! I guess I just want to fix everything about myself immediately so that I can have some hope of getting into relationships (in real life) that work better for me. My love relationships always fall apart because there's too much distance between me and the other person. So now I want to have the ability to be more genuine and intimate with people, and of course I want it now. :-)

Sidony