Thread: Blank slates
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Old Feb 27, 2014, 09:18 AM
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my previous T was blank slate, e.g. the only information which he provided about himself was his name... no, actually now I realized that it's not true, once he said that he was crying a lot when he was a baby (i.e. < 1 month old) but it was more to annoy me that even babies can protect themselves by crying But I am not sure if I was not the biggest fan of the blank slate approach or just of my T...

My current T discloses some facts like "my husband got retired so probably I'll take more holidays next years than I used to take", so I know that she's married

I've read somewhere that in some cases "blank slate" approach may even cause some damage to clients but to be honest in some cases even water can be unhealthy so I am not so sure about this statement...