I didn't have this issue with my first. He had been with 14 girls before me. I knew this. He was a complete player when we first became friends and got together. Then we moved in together and became engaged. That's when I finally gave in. I wanted to know I wasn't just another notch on the bedpost. But it never bothered me. It was his past and I was his future. If he had wanted them he would have gave up his player life for them. I did however make him get tested first. Because I mean 14 girls is a lot to not be sure if they gave him something.

Ironically I'm the one who cheated in that relationship.

Fefe(28) -bipolar II
Hubby(28)
Son(8)-aspergers and possibly ADHD and odd
Daughter(5)