This 'man' does not love or respect you. He is having his cake and eating it too at your expense. Dump him, gain self respect, go on with your life.

Deal with your broken heart, cut ties and begin to heal. I wish this had never happened to you, but I am glad you found out before you invested more of your life in someone who doesn't give a crap about you.

What an awful situation, again, I am very sorry!

HourHand