my therapist told me she wasn't the enemy which changed my whole outlook on my problem. i had experiences in pshyc wards where i felt the caretakers were all mean and out to get me. when she said that my whole outlook changed. it changed my whole life and she is a great therapist, goes out of her way to help me too. i am a very lonely person as i fear seizures i've experienced before and am afraid to go out of my home because of them. i know what it is like to be a hermit too-very lonely.