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Originally Posted by The Fox & the Hound
Oh... I forgot to mention this yesterday.
She made up LIES, saying that her mom said all these things about ME. I told her- "maybe I'll ask your mom, why she thinks this.". Then she told me, my mom doesn't think that... I do.
So I look weird, & not normal, I'm annoying, & the reason people bully/be mean to her? Because of me.
I can't even really talk to her. She is just like... Remember last night? What we talked about? & She told me, lets stick to that 
I hate myself anymore now, I do not know why people hate me so much.MY BF is being incredibly rude to me. Oh, & she said more people talked to her today. She usually wears "comfy clothes". Today, she wore makeup(heavy enough so you could see it), wore a clothing that everyone else wore, & looked like a "Popular" girl. |
My daughter had a BF, who moved on to a different crowd, even had someone else tell my daughter she was no longer a friend. My daughter was initially very hurt. Then, my daughter said "She's now with those girls that sit around combing their hair..."
And she moved on. (they even played on the same team for a while, and I was proud of my daughter, who treated her like any other team member, while the former BF was clearly uncomfortable when I would say hello...etc) Today, my daughter is grown, confident, and has a wonderful group of supportive, real friends. You can grow from this. Focus on your strengths, do not be afraid to be yourself, pursue your interests. The rest will come. Honestly, there is no point in beating yourself up for things that are out of your control, or that say a whole lot more about someone else than about you.