Hugs!!! I definitely understand where you are coming from. It is painful to go through what you are going through. The natural response it to want to quit and walk away thinking the pain will go away. Unfortunately, with the wound open it probably will not go away. I would go to T and explain first about needing to know you are not a pain. Then tell her that you need to take things slower as it was too much. She should respect and work with you on what you need..