growlycat- It's a good question. In a way, I wish I could get a new T after I graduate. But I'm on my parent's health insurance, and I just don't think it's an option to have them know I'm seeing a T. Maybe if I find a full-time job with health insurance, then I could, but I'm not sure because my parents expect me to stay on their insurance until I'm 25. I don't know if I'd ever find one as good as her, and I'm not sure I'd be able to go for awhile at least, because I'd feel like it would lessen her importance? But I'm sure I'll wind up back in therapy eventually- I feel like I need to get this attachment thing right. The sad thing is, I've had many chances: I had major transference for 2 teachers already, and neither of those relationships worked out in the end. Now history is repeating itself again with my T.