I just got in contact with a woman on Match.com and we began texting tonight. Overall, I think we have a lot in common, but I just can't escape the terrifying feeling that it won't work. What can I do to make sure it works, and something other than "just be yourself." I wouldn't be in this position if being myself worked. As folks probably know, I am in dire need of some love/sex before I turn 35 or I will probably commit suicide. How can I get these fears out of my head?