I think at some point we free ourselves. I doubt it can happen naturally because love like that tend to last forever simply because feelings are very strong but I see people including myself who can decide one day that this is ruining their life and you just need to stop, like stop smoking or stop taking drugs and then you do everything it takes to stay "sober". Do you realize that you need it? Do you want it? Then do it.
I understand that we never would if it we were getting same thing back, if we also felt loved and cared about, but if not then it is going to eat you up. You just need to decide for yourself that it's time to stop.

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