I've noticed my mere presence can set off a certain personality type. I can be nearly silent, yet they see me as a threat and they attack. Just personally, in those cases, those people thought I somehow would "out" them, so before that could happen they decided to "out" me on something, even if it was purely made up.
I don't ask for anything. Telling me I "asked for it" quickly will identify them as a bully.
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