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Originally Posted by hvert
It could be the kind of people you tend to be friends with, too. It bums me out also when friends seem uninterested in my life and don't even bother to ask about 'big' events. I finally noticed that many of my friends did not seem to have time for me unless we were talking about them... which led to the realization that I have been surrounding myself with narcissists for years.
You're right that it isn't always intentional and more irons in the fire helps  |
Thanks for your insight hvert. This girl had all kinds of problems..within her marriage and the choices she was making. A real ball of nerves and she didn't hold back from the prescription drugs, either. ;-) But, I chose to see only the part I liked...her outgoing nature, friendliness, which come to find out was totally insincere, and her intelligence. (She is a nurse practitioner.). Serves me right for "picking her" her as someone I wanted to get close to.