Hope you take this the right way. The problem is cos of happy la la tv shows people expect humans to be caring etc when in fact human nature is disgusting, aggressive, nasty and callous. Most humans would kill thier own mother if it wasn't for the law. Contrary to what we are taught kindness is the exception not the rule. Not saying it's a good thing or that it's acceptable or that you have to like it just saying the truth nothing more.