Thank you for putting it there.

As a woman, I cannot speak to what men find attractive.....media would have us believe something totally unreasonable....

But I see a plenty of couple of all different shapes and sizes....both in real life and in my online visits to various forums and chat rooms..

We are not what we appear...true, attraction is visual initially, but trust me, many men go for women who will not blow over in the wind.

Your ex's problem was HIS problem, not yours....