Perna; i think you could be right, there is a deadening, i can sense there's something very subtle going on underneath all the " I think i'm healthily attached" stuff. I haven't really discussed this with her yet, i'm still mulling over it myself. I have spoke of my fears of becoming attached to her before tho.

Hopelessly Hopeful: i just found it really intense and scary and felt very out of control.