I can see how it would be difficult to have your mother caring for you rather than a profession caregiver who is not related. I know that the boundaries with my mother are different. I have to worry about hurting her feelings. You have to deal with a relationship as well as your recovery in one. I don't know what type if relationship you have with her. I pray that she is not abusive, even emotionally in any way. If so, do you have the option of having a different caregiver?